Start dating after marriage breakup

Dating after divorce isn’t easy, and will require a great group of people surrounding you to keep you motivated and inspired!

But be open on your idea of “the package.” You need to have excellent photos (starting with a great smiling headshot). 4 rules for nailing the perfect profile picture As women, we often feel like we just want to date one person at a time. Dating should be like a horse race — you need many horses to make it a race!

That includes great head-to-toe shots as well as of you and only you! The horse that’s winning on the first lap might break its leg and might need to be taken out of the race.

I coach all of my clients through a “marriage map” exercise to create a road map of a partner that will make them happy, which is necessary to start picking the right people. Many women stare blankly at me when I ask this question, because they’ve been so busy taking care of everyone else around them that they’ve totally lost sight of what makes them happy.

Make a list of five to 10 things that bring you joy, and start to do them again.

I’m in it to win it, not in it for a minute.” At this point, I hope you’ve done the "inside work" necessary to find a healthy relationship.

Do you understand what went wrong in your relationship?

Don’t rule out someone who is a little taller, shorter, skinner, heavier, a different color, older or younger than you “think” is your type.

You should be attracted to the person, as that is so important for the long term!

RELATED: 5 relationship warning signs couples should never ignore Can you identify what a new, good, happy relationship looks like to you? So, if you were married to a narcissist, without the knowledge of what a narcissist acts like in the beginning, you may find yourself on the same dysfunctional merry-go-round again.

Make sure your past is legitimately in the past, so you don’t end up choosing the wrong kinds of people again and again for the wrong reasons.

If you’ve always wanted to take up photography, find a group that welcomes new budding photographers.

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