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"One study found that the average couple with kids communicates just 15 minutes a day.

If all your communication is transactional, you're not going to connect as partners and lovers. "Ask your partner, 'what's the craziest part of your week? ' Ask what you would if you were on your first date."What it looks like: He forgets to pay the credit card bill and you get fined again.

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What it looks like: One person feels like their relationship is perfect, but the other needs some space.

The space-seeker flakes, making the nester cling harder, which then makes the space-seeker run for the hills.

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You've talked things out, sworn to change, and started over…and over.

Why it's easy to fall into: "This happens a lot for people in both the marriage and dating world.

You don't want to make waves or for your partner to leave you if you upset them.

"It's unsexy for her because she feels like a mom, and he sees her that way as well.

The main thing is to catch yourself before you resort to nagging."What to do: "From the start try have a strong equal pattern," suggests Sherman. Sit down and talk to someone as if they were your roommate. Never take up the slack and just do it yourself."What it looks like: You give up pretty much your whole DNA in the name of love and pleasing the other person.

Yet your relationship woes still follow the same destructive, drama-worthy playbook (see above.) Never fear!

Our experts show you the way out of the most common relationship dynamics.

It can be deeply rooted in issues of not feeling accepted as you are," says Sherman.

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