Dating someone who has a child
In hindsight, perhaps I should have really ended it there. He decided to move out of the flat owned by his ex’s father and live with his mum for a bit until we could afford something together.
You do end up staying in more when you have a boyfriend, but I was also staying in to read bedtime stories and help build Lego.
My weekends had definitely changed but interestingly enough, that wasn’t what I felt, impacted my life.
He was unsure if I could I help him with his ‘responsibilities.’ I was scared to lose him so I would deliberately discuss wanting children and pretend I didn’t really care about the trajectory of my career.
I was prepared to focus on our lives rather than focus on where I wanted to go with my life.
It was a situation I had never been exposed to before. We argued, he apologised but I told myself I needed to remove myself from a situation that hurt me.
I think I was also jealous her too – if you ended up getting engaged and having children with this guy well, she’s done it all with him already. I started to do my own thing more and stay at mine more often.
It’s definitely not right for me now in my twenties but, to be honest, I don’t want to think about what could be in the future either.
Too much of my time has been wasted thinking about someone else’s needs.
The differences of what we wanted in life were becoming apparent.Tags: Adult Dating, affair dating, sex dating