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Century the English marked the word “Dutch” as anything they did not like or considered unwholesome.To name a few that survived to this day; “Dutch courage” (over indulging in alcohol to gain foolish confidence), “Dutch sale or Dutch Bargain” (a sale made at an unfairly low price after the goods were offered at a high price or a one-sided bargain), “Double Dutch” ( incomprehensible nonsense), “Dutch Alps”( small breasts) and my all time favourite and more in line with this article “The Dutch treat” ( to pay one’s own way or going 50/50 on a bill with someone ,be it your date or girlfriend.) I personally experienced the wonders of the “Dutch treat” on a date, on the evening of 31 Are most Dutch men unromantic? Take note that the following article is based on my personal experiences and talking to people.

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But most of us non- Dutch women expect to be treated with more romance, expect more presents, more compliments and more acknowledgment just for being women. A few may perceive our expectations as being shallow, one-sided and selfish but in our defense , this adds a certain flavour to the relationship that makes it more pleasant, magical and rewarding to both parties.

As an African woman I know from experience that African men can be quite romantic in terms of showering women with attention, gifts and compliments.

A Dutch guy I met at a barber shop once had this to say on the subject of a Dutch Treat and dating, “ If the date is going well I do not mind paying the entire bill. If it is not going well, I will make sure she pays half. I will not spend my money on a bad date.” What immediately came to my mind was that this man was a cheapskate and clearly lacks a romantic bone in him.

However, I later realized that this is not very strange in the Netherlands.

Perhaps it comes from past tradition of men being the provider in the home and ensuring your wife or wives lack for nothing.

One who built his woman a beautiful house, clothed her in the best clothes, adorned her with jewellery and fattened her up with rich foods (fat women were a depiction of a wealthy man) was the envy of the village.

I remember him adding a little bit more to my mom’s grocery money every month so that she buys something nice for herself.

My mother was and is a working woman with a steady job but my father continued to do so throughout. I remember my mother telling me that my father always volunteered to change poopy nappies (no diapers in those days) when we were babies.

It concluded that her previous relationships with Dutch men were casual, practical and more impersonal.

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