dating in schenectady ny - 18 year old girl dating a 17 year old guy

There's this guy that likes me , he's 17 I'm . He's really sweet and we're just gonna talk and claim each other as boyfriend and girlfriend .

I asked my 18 year old girl cousin about it and she said just go for it , but I don't know !!

I was the oracle, remembering each detail from my supporting role. I was causing trouble, making things difficult for everyone."What happened to you back there? Just like that, you lose your footing, and you're in over your head. He noticed my sudden distance and pouted, unsettling to see in an adult.

There was safety in the shadows, but also a kind of darkness. " my friend whispered as we walked back to the car with the guys a few steps ahead. "Like we were supposed to be boyfriend and girlfriend, or something.""Well," she said slowly. I'd completely accepted her romance with an older guy as normal, even destined. When he wasn't upset, he was in kindness overdrive, buying me things: a gold necklace with a floating heart, stuffed animals.

Also, lately there's a girl sitting next to me in class and she's really nice to me. That one lasted longer so it's not like there isn't any prosperity in those relationships either, cause there is. I recently started going back to school and I was worried that everyone was going to be a lot younger but I've come to find out that most of the people in my classes are only a couple years younger than me, the same age or older and I am 26. The feeling of not being able to do this or that becuase your a few years older is all social construct. I learned a lot from her, and we had a great time while it lasted.

I don't actually think she has a crush on me or anything, but I'm always worried that she might find out my age and think differently of me. Oh when I first read that I thought you said 24 years older. Anyway newtype, I dated a 19 year old when I was 26. But don't lie about your age, you need to be up front about that. 18 isn't really that young compared to 24, you shouldn't worry about the number if you guys get along well. My first real relationship was close to that age and age gap.

It's no problem but some people will always be judgmental when there's nothing wrong with it.

Make friends with whoever you like and if you want to take it further, reveal your age and just ask a general question about whether you think people in that school would go out with you given your age, and see what the girl thinks.So, to keep that happening, I avoid getting into conversations with her, or anyone else. It didn't work out because she was more mature than me. Also, a lot of girls kind of like the older man, so you're definitely in the clear. It wasn't a problem at all because I wasn't expereinced with relationships and still felt younger then my age.We were very close in our thoughts and mindset, it didn't even feel like I was older at all.i believe that you have no intention of having sex, but i also believe a 17 (going on 18) year old guy does.Plus once he is 18 it will be illegal for you two to date considering you are well below the legal age in the US.There's this guy that likes me , he's 17 I'm . He's really sweet and we're just gonna talk and claim each other as... I don't feel right about it , but it's not like we're going to have sex .

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